No matter what your privacy preferences are, we've got you covered.

1) Click your name in the top, right corner and select "settings"

2) Select "privacy settings" and choose the option that's best for you.  There are 2 options to choose from (Note: ONLY VERIFIED USERS CAN CONNECT WITH YOU):

Option 1:  Public - This option allows anyone on the internet to search for and view your SpankMatch profile.

Option 2:  Only SpankMatch users - This option gives you a bit more privacy and only allows verified SpankMatch users to view your profile.

If you have any further questions, our support team is happy to help.  Feel free to email us anytime at